Well, we’ve reached the end of our journey – a trip that can only be described as EPIC!!!
I have to acknowledge that thousands of folks have done this trip; and thousands have done it many times; and many have done it solo, as I did. Nevertheless, for me it was a great adventure.
I was very lucky: I enjoyed great health and great weather for most of the trip (except for one flu episode, I never even had a cold). And I had the advantage of using today’s wonderful electronic navigation aids. It made me think about my father, who introduced me to boating. He had to do it all by dead reckoning!
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I know it will take some time and distance to assimilate it all, but I’ve learned a few things:
- The boat was perfect. Not too big; not too small. OK, I might like something a little bigger in rough seas, but it’s not in the budget.
- You can never have too many good charts and guidebooks
- It’s never too late to make new friends and forge new relationships.
- Spending the winter in Florida is GOOOOOD.
As I had hoped, it was a voyage of healing, and I feel like I’ve made the first steps toward the future.
I re-connected with family members and friends in a new, fresh way.
And I really enjoyed having Guinness with me…he makes friends wherever we go. He brings a simple joy to every new experience.
I tested myself and learned a lot about myself and my abilities. (and my shortcomings). In particular, I am much more skilled at planning routes and using the chart plotter. As I came back north, I reviewed some of the routes I had plotted before the trip, and they look amateurish.
The trip was not a walk in the park: whether you choose to go outside (in the ocean) or through the ICW, there are risks and pitfalls. In particular, the shoaling in the ICW can cause some panicky moments. Every morning begins with a thrill of anticipation and a pang of anxiety.
I was impatient on the trip south; wanting to get there. Much more patient northbound, because by then I had a pretty good idea how much distance I could cover in a day, and the routes were more familiar.
I was surprised by how much time we were alone on the water: frequently with no other boats in sight, and often out of the sight of land. Even on our last day, as we made our way up the Chesapeake Bay, we did not see a single other boat!
Were I to do it again, I would not change very much, except I might visit a few towns I skipped this time around.
The high points of the trip for me were:
- Key West
- Captiva
- Charleston
- Beaufort NC / Atlantic Beach
- Connecting with family and friends in Savannah, St. Petersburg, Naples, Venice, Ft Lauderdale, Isle of Palms, Palmetto Bluff, and Beaufort NC.
- Making new friends at the marinas along the way
- Accomplishing something I’ve thought about for a long time – and doing it on my own!
I learned that I am fundamentally a solitary man, often uninterested in other people. But on this trip, I took the time to connect with other people, and I was pleased with the outcome: I liked them, and they liked me. I am going to try to be more other-focused.
And now, some thank-you’s:
I couldn’t have done this trip without the help of my neighbors Yvonne and Carol, who looked after my home and collected my mail.
And I want to close by thanking all my friends and family who followed my blog and supported me. I felt far away but never alone.